Nothing pleases me more than
poking about in the lives of kin who lived and loved in centuries past. Like Alice and her Looking Glass, the
achievements and mistakes our people from the past stacked up over a multitude
of years are fascinating reflections of our own life. I’m not at all sure some of my great Grand-mama’s
or Papas would be pleased now to see some of their innermost secrets laid open
for public scrutiny, but I look on them with great relief – they make my own
youthful peccadilloes seem very tame indeed.
***
ANNA KEATES: A WOMAN LOCKED IN HER TIME.
I’ve written in detail about a number of my long dead kinspeople: Geraldine McGowan’s adventures in Fiji, Sarah
Breneger who lived during the New South Wales gold rush, Bryan Spalding and his
daughter Catherine who knew well the raw convict days of settlement, gentle
Maggie and her blustering Yankee husband, the Quaker contingent of Pennsylvania
and Indiana, the dour Yorkshire Mortimers, the Stewarts from Skye and the
Danish Sorensens.
Of all these amazing and at times strong willed people I searched for
one in particular who was perhaps the most amazing of them all and couldn’t for
a variety of reasons go past my great great-grandmother Ann Keates Sweeny. The year 1860 saw her comparatively
comfortable lifestyle torn apart. She deserves a medal, not only for her
courage, determination and family loyalty but as well for the fact that she
bore 16 children to a man who clearly put his own creature comforts before all
other consideration even to the point of committing bigamy with a much younger
woman.
Had Ann lived in this modern time and age there would have been no
multitude of children and the errant hubbie would have been booted out long
ago.
And I would never have had her life story to tell.
*
THIS IS ANN KEATES STORY
Above two images Worthing Town Hall - depicted 20 or so years apart. |
The year is 1836. Queen Victoria is yet to ascend the British throne: An
Act of Parliament has in earlier years given seaside Worthing in Sussex the
status of a town. Only the year before, Worthing’s first Town Hall, with clock,
has been built for the grand sum of £1,250 on land donated by Sir Timothy
Shelley father of the poet. You can see
the Town Hall at the end of South Street in both images above dated some 20 or
so years apart.
The occasion is the annual
Tradesmen’s Ball and our story begins with a 16 year old Ann the eldest
daughter of Francis Keates, a local businessman of some note, and her childhood
sweetheart, Alfred Sweeny, an articled clerk who is some 4 years older.
This social knee’s up is a jolly one.
The Ball, held in the Nelson Hotel has attracted the patronage of many
of Worthing’s middle business class citizens. Nelson’s is a popular venue and
prior to the building of the grand, and very new Town Hall, had been the
meeting place of the town council.
Young Ann Keates is there, no
doubt wearing a pretty ball gown created by her mother, the former Mary
Saysell, a gifted seamstress; and so too
is Alfred an articled clerk in the office of prominent local lawyer William
Tribe. Unfortunately for our young
couple, Lawyer Tribes son of a similar age also attends the ball and he is a
most jealous and vindictive young man.
But unbeknown to either Alfred or William, another of those present at
the ball has anonymously written and circulated a crude page of literature
denigrating not only the night’s revelry but also the reputations of several of
those who attended. Unfortunately we have no record of this unknown person’s scribbling;
whatever it is he wrote, we in the here and now have not a clue.
But someone who obviously attended the ball takes personal umbrage and
writing under the pseudonym of ‘Castigator’
writes a lengthy and libellous retort in the form of doggerel or running rhyme,
which he sends to the local newspaper the Brighton
Guardian. I can only imagine
legitimate news was pretty thin on the ground that particular day and for that
matter, its editor not overly worried about defamation nor litigation, because
publish it he did.
Nelson Hotel - with sign protruding. |
And in the words of this 144 line rhyming prose ‘Castigator’ clearly believes Alfred Sweeny is the author of the
original unsigned publication and cruelly sets out to in turn cast aspersions
not only on Alfred who he describes as – a
slanderer, a clerk…having scratch’d away at parchment sheets or ledgers all
day…who makes himself the laughing stock of all who courted pleasure at the Nelson
Ball… held his betters up to ridicule …did maliciously attempt to bite the
heels of him who afforded that delight…
You get the gist of his diatribe – it goes on and on… it seems ‘Castigator’ knows Alfred Sweeny well,
and so he should for Alfred is indeed a clerk in his father’s Worthing
solicitor’s office and the coyly named respondent hiding under the cloak of
anonymity harbours an unhealthy and jealous dislike for the man he describes as
a clerk and slanderer. Alfred by now is considering ‘Castigator’s’ identity with deep
suspicion.
Not content with defaming Alfred Sweeny, ‘Castigator’ then turns his waspish pen against both Alfred’s
widowed mother and against his sweetheart as well, Ann Keates. Mother Sweeny is a dressmaker, and we
discover later, she has had great difficulty obtaining payment for shirts
ordered and made for a young customer known as Mr Ambrose, who in turn is a
close associate of the petulant Master Tribe.
…The reason that his (Alfred’s) hate on Ambrose fell
The latter sent some Irish calico
To some ones mother – I shall not say who
To be made into shirts…
At this stage Castigator goes
into detail about Mr Ambrose complaining the length of time it took to complete
the order, and the fact that payment was not made because as he petulantly puts
it…
‘…
Ambrose said ‘Twas not convenient; Besides he should not hurry now to pay…’
But ‘Castigator’ has now shown his hand too freely and is quickly
recognized by Alfred to be his employer’s son William Foard Tribe. The doggerel continues with a reference to
Alfred’s sweetheart, Ann Keates who in relation to her father’s many diverse business
interests is named as Miss Fish.…
‘At this the beardless puppy stormed and swore
But Ambrose quickly show’d him to the door
From pride thus hurt how often hatred grows;
He (Alfred) says a fish would
make a ‘bloated dish’,
Pray was he thinking of his own Miss Fish?
By
now Alfred has decided enough is enough and his reply to ‘Castigator’ is swift and direct. In a signed letter to the Editor
published in the Brighton Guardian on
March 2nd, he denies authorship of the original verse that caused
such venom stating he should have treated
‘Castigator’s attack with the
silent contempt it deserves but for the imputation made on a female relative of
mine’ .
Alfred’s
reply was contained in a stinging letter that the newspaper printed in full;
one where he took up his mother’s defence with a full report of the blatant
dishonesty of Mr Ambrose; for such a business transaction had taken place which
clearly put the guilt of non payment in Ambrose’s corner.
There
was no way, as Alfred himself realised back then, that he could prove without
doubt the identity of the anonymous ‘Castigator’
but we in the here and now should be grateful the vindictive and jealous young Tribe
embarked that night on his vendetta to destroy our ancestors reputation: Grateful because Alfred’s signed retort
published in the Brighton Guardian enabled Peter Fleming, a fellow ancestor like me, to piece together
this fascinating and pivoting event in the life and times of Ann Keates and
Alfred Fleming.
That
nasty and vitriolic clutch of poetry and its public airing would however prove
to be only the starting point of a lifetime of bitter feuding by the Tribe
family, a long journey through the years that would see great disaster fall on
the shoulders of my great great-grandparents, Ann and Alfred Sweeny.
A
disaster that inevitably changed the course of my life as well.
*
MARRIAGE
AND ACCUMULATING WEALTH
Four years of courting pass: In 1840 the young couple marry and on their
marriage certificate Alfred states his occupation as a fish monger. Francis Keates, a generous father in-law has
provided the newlyweds with a readymade business, the seafood no doubt
originating from his own fishing trawler.
Ann and Alfred take up residence in the rooms above the business in 33
South Street.
By the spring of the next year
however, a position becomes vacant for a tax assessor and collector for the
Worthing Council: Alfred passes through
the due processes of nomination and with the necessary guarantees, £1000 from his father in law, his mothers
landlord, a local plumber and a carrier – and with no small measure of in
house persuasion by Francis Keates who is also a town councillor, Alfred
secures the very lucrative position.
The Sweeny’s set about producing a family that would eventually number sixteen children. Their first child is named Adeline Orde Sweeny, the middle name celebrating the marriage of Alfred’s sister Mary Ann to Special Constable Robert Jocelyn Shafto Orde; a step up in society for Mary Ann, for on the Orde’s marriage certificate Robert is proudly described as a Gentleman.
In quick succession over the
next six years three more children will be born, and sadly their first born
little Adeline will die: The year following her death a fourth daughter will be
born and she will be named Adeline Maud.
The second name Orde will be held in reserve until my great-grandmother
Geraldine Orde Sweeny is born in 1849.
The Sweeny’s next home which
incurs an annual rent of £10 is a modest upstairs downstairs cottage in Warwick
Place, one they will soon outgrow. Alfred sets about his work as a tax and rent
collector for the Worthing Town Council.
Taxes in those days were levied on such obscure items as church pew
seats, and tax collecting was a lucrative position to hold.
In 1842 the Sweeny’s move once
again, this time to 41 Montague Street opposite Bath Place Lawn a position that
enjoys views of the sea. Baby Robert Alfred is born here and at this stage
there are rooms to spare which are let to casual lodgers including touring performers
from the Theatre Royal.
Worthing Pier - a popular spot. |
Alfred is now moving in
Worthing’s social circles, enjoying the hospitality of manor houses and
attending meetings and events with the town’s forefront of movers and
shakers. These are heady times and
Alfred is in the thick of it. At home
Ann finds herself awash in babies and domestic chores.
I wonder just how seriously Alfred considered
the citizens of high standing who
provided the large sums of security that enabled him to rise to the giddy
heights that he surely did. Apparently
they held Alfred in high regard and so they should.
Alfred after all was an essentially honest
young man, but his family was growing at a rapid pace and his household
expenses exploding. He continues rather
blithely to move the family into ever more expensive housing, sets up
additional business interests and begins generally to live a tad beyond his
means. Their new residence at 13 Warwick
Place for instance has eight fireplaces and coal is delivered through a
pavement entrance into an underground cellar.
In 1847 Alfred purchases at
auction two additional buildings in Warwick place for the grand sum of £255
with the proviso that the house at Number 2 may be used by his brother in law
Robert Jocelyn Shafto Orde during the natural life of the purchaser Alfred
Sweeny. I imagine this generous
arrangement has been made on the condition that his aged mother would share the
house with her daughter Mary Ann, now calling herself Marianne and her husband,
the policeman.
Through all this ‘Castigator’, alias the young William
Foard Tribe, now himself a lawyer in his father’s practice is forever watchful
and ever sniping in council matters, just waiting for the right moment to
pounce on Alfred, his boyhood adversary.
Following the second Adeline’s
birth, eleven more children are born, four more daughters and seven additional
sons. Twins Leonard and Bernard barely survive birth before they too pass away.
(There is a report that the child’s
uncle, in tears and despair carried baby Bernard’s tiny coffin to the Parish
Rector.)
Later much later in 1863,
another young son Reginald will also die in early childhood: By then though the remnants of the Sweeny family
will be living in much less agreeable circumstances in the slums of a Welsh
mining town.
Disaster first strikes when
Ann’s father’s business partner and in- law John Saysell dies upsetting a
delicate business arrangement and as a consequence Francis Keates is declared
bankrupt, and is dismissed from his position on the Worthing Town Council. Through all the financial wrangling the
Keates manage to retain their china and glass business but Frank
Keates himself will pass away a few years later in 1854 leaving his own family
in straitened circumstances. During
this time a Keates son, Ann’s brother Harry will make his way to Australia
joining other lads from Worthing seeking their fortune in the Victorian gold
rush.
About the same time Alfred’s
sister Mary Ann and her husband the gentlemanly
Special Constable Robert Orde decamp to live in France. I think one can safely assume Orde has done
a runner for whatever reason we do not know.
(Mary Ann will die in France and
Orde will return to England and marry a much younger woman at the same time
taking a good ten years off his age on the marriage certificate.).
At this stage things are not
looking too rosy for Alfred Sweeny; in one fell swoop he has lost the
credibility and support of two of his most staunch pillars of society. But Alfred forges on, managing to obtain
additional guarantees, on this occasion from the local town plumber and a
brewer of note and the accumulation of family and property and personal
recognition gaily continues.
Alfred now takes over the
lucrative collection of pew rents at the Worthing Chapel of Ease which means
that except for the Poor Rates most of the money levied in the town now passes
through his hands. All of this apparent
success has been noted by the Tribes and now William Senior, once Alfred’s
employer begins to publicly criticise the tax collector’s work ethics and
practice on the floor of the Council’s chambers.
Again and again Alfred survives
the Tribes accusations. The Sweeny’s
have many friends in high places in Worthing’s business circles and the popular
tax collector, despite his unenviable position, is judged generally to be a
fair advocate, often deliberating on the side of the poor: Decisions that at times went against the
fortunes and pockets of greedy land lords, many of whom were no doubt clients
of the Tribe law firm.
A councillor at the time, George Greenfield said of William Tribe …’He wouldn’t care if he persecuted the man
to death, not that I wish to take his part, but I won’t be a party to what I
consider persecution.’
Through all these ups and downs
Alfred has been busy dabbling in real estate purchasing three further
properties all close to the sea and ideal for holiday renting. (Worthing
Town has become very fashionable in the eyes of the London elite and on
occasion even enjoys Royal patronage…) and has moved his growing family
into his latest acquisition, the grand and spacious multi-storey Steyne Library
which he promptly renames Clarendon House.
He has great plans for the
spacious building including the establishment of a reading Library and bedrooms
aplenty for the accommodation of lodgers.
Clarendon House and Steyne Hotel |
No doubt Anna and the children
enjoy the comfort and ease that money can provide. They have a live in maid and
judging by the size of their new residence I would think Ann, who now is often
referred to as Anna, has some general domestic help as well. Mary Ann and her policeman husband in making
their sudden departure from Worthing have left Alfred’s mother behind and the
elderly Mrs Sweeny and all her possessions have now been moved to Number 2
Warwick Place where she becomes a lodging house keeper taking in summer
visitors.
*
ALFRED’S DOWNFALL
About now Alfred is appointed secretary of the Worthing Liberal
Registration Association, a post lacking financial advantage but conferring a
degree of social recognition. But
following this appointment Council irregularities are found in his issuing of
receipts and keeping of accounts. The
Tribes become aware of this and in a letter describe apparently fraudulent
behaviour regarding rates collected from a Mrs Fielder.
Alfred’s response is to write a letter of apology to Mrs Fielder and
return the errant sum of money. To his
superiors he explains the lapse as an oversight due to over work and the large
number of accounts to be processed. Alas
for Alfred keeping his many business ventures spinning is proving very
difficult indeed.
Events finally spiral to a head
when the Tribes openly contest Alfred’s collections particularly in relation to
of all things, the church pews. Perhaps Alfred has become somewhat sloppy with
his accounting and figures haven’t accordingly balanced.
There is considerable
empathy for Alfred, but throughout the ensuing year the Tribes father and son uncover
further anomalies and attack him not only in Council Chambers but also in
newspaper articles reminiscent of the original doggerel; the overwhelming
result is inevitable.
Alfred avoids dismissal by handing in his resignation. The Tribes, one imagines, are jubilant at the
outcome.
W. Tribe's Residence - 1800s. |
On the home front with Anna
again pregnant, another daughter is born, Madeline May, on January 15th
1859 bringing the number of children to fourteen, and during the remainder of
that month, with business debts mounting, Alfred’s fortunes take an alarming
and critical slide.
In a final bid to survive
Alfred sells Clarendon House to a friend for £700 which leaves him about £130
clear of his debt. But it wasn’t
enough. His business affairs are in a
right mess and on the 12th February the parish officers serve a
summons for non payment of £2 and 5 shillings poor rates.
Faced with an untenable
situation Alfred knows full well the officers next step will be to make claim
on his belongings, he has after all officially instigated similar seizures on
other council debtors, and in an effort to save some of his and his aged
mother’s furniture he arranges a midnight removal.
A few days later Alfred is arrested for debt
and taken to prison in nearby Lewes. His
attempts at evasion were of no benefit, the furniture and effects found and
confiscated and the sale of Clarendon House declared null and void.
Ann and the children were
allowed to keep only the clothes they were wearing, bedding and tools to the
total value of £20: All their
belongings, the children’s books, toys, special treasures vanishing in an
instant. Their eldest son Alfred Robert, 17, ashamed and bewildered deserted
the family to join the marines. In later years he would adopt his mother’s
maiden name and become known as Alfred Keates. He would some years later suffer
the ignominy of a conviction for running an illegal brothel in Swansea at
number 66 Salubrious Square.
The children may not have been
aware at the time but their family structure was beginning to crack. In an
effort to escape the shame and humiliation of England, the released Alfred
looked to New Zealand. Steerage fares
were cheap and each fare reputedly attracted a claim for 20 acres free land in
the new country.
Alfred was finally released
from jail on July 5th, 1859 the same day an auction notice appeared
in the paper regarding freehold properties owned by him. They included Clarendon House and a freehold
dwelling at no 2 Warwick Place. (The resulting sum total cleared from his debt
to creditors of £727 enabled Alfred to buy the steerage passages for himself
and his two children aboard the Jura.)
In 1859 Alfred took with him his ten year old
son Ethelbert and daughter Bertha, 15, and set sail on the Jura for Auckland.
A public subscription is taken
up to provide later passage to New Zealand for the destitute Anna and the
remainder of the children. Left at home
to fend for herself, the 38 year old mother reliant on welfare charity gathers her
children around her and waits for a suitable ship.
1860: Aboard the Shaw Saville
vessel Avalanche, Anna and her brood will
face a long, uncomfortable voyage in the cramped and crowded conditions of their
2nd cabin accommodation, certainly not first class but thankfully a
step up from third class steerage. Hopefully New Zealand will provide a safe
haven, opportunities to rebuild their fortunes.
But Alfred has not taken into account the
harsh reality of life in the new colony of New Zealand; one that essentially needs
sturdy farm workers, and with the Maori Wars looming, men and boys to fight in
the militia. Anna unaware of the
troubles that lie ahead sails on through rough seas, her clutch of youngsters
around her. In Auckland a despondent Alfred
attempting to come to grips with the reality of poverty in a strange new land
waits her arrival.
*
Part 2 of Anna’s Story will detail
the crushed dreams of a new life, the fickle decision by her husband to return
to England barely months after arriving in the land of the Long White Cloud and
the family’s flirtation with shipwreck aboard the Phoenix. It is perhaps a
blessing for Anna that she cannot see far into the future; is unaware of the
even greater hardship and shame that lies ahead.
Robyn Mortimer ©2014-03-26
With special thanks to fellow kinsmen Peter
Fleming and Malcolm Kirkland for their keen research and attention to detail.
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